Hello Music Madness I know it has been a minute since you have read from me but I’m here to tell you guys I’m Back!! A lot’s been going on and a lot hasn’t been going on up in here because my lab top decided it wanted to take a vacation. However, that vacation cost … Continue reading


Hello Sweetea, Waking up in the mornings is such a Blessing routine I think people have really lost the importance of it all and the value of being alive and functional. I truly have learned how one start their morning will set the tone for the rest of their day, mood and over-all attitude. This is why … Continue reading

Is Chivalry DEAD? And if so, whose FAULT is it?

Hello Sweetea, Chivalry use to be the thing to do in order to get a girl/lady/woman to notice you. Chivalry was part of courting a counter partner in order to win her heart and approval. Chivalry is courteous behavior that men show towards women like giving up a seat, opening doors, paying on a date, … Continue reading

♫ MUSIC MADNESS: I Love My Hair ♫

Hello Sweetea, Happy Monday Music Madness! It’s the start of a new week and I am thankful for a great weekend!! This weekend I really had the time to sit and reflect on some of the life choices I’ve made in my life regarding my Health vs my Hair! I attended a beautiful, romantic and great wedding … Continue reading

Coming Out 4 Cupcakes!

Hello Sweetea, When you mix dessert, shopping on a budget, supporting a good cause and the children of our future I am there with bells on jumping for joy! Last week for National Coming Out Day, I attended The Brooklyn Community Pride Center fundraiser benefiting a new after-school program for LGBTQ youth in Brooklyn at … Continue reading

Unhappily Happy: Mental Health Day

Day 1-Called in sick decided to take a mental health day, for those who may not understand. It is simply a day when no one will be home so I stay home and mentally prepare for the next day. Its starts out basic me making breakfast for my husband before he leaves for work because … Continue reading

Introducing Unhappily Happy!

So, it’s October and I checked my resolution list and well let’s just say that all things are not checked off. So, I woke up today and quickly jump into panic mode, because like the last couple of years I had to keep adding my old resolutions onto my new list each year with my … Continue reading

♫ MUSIC: “Daddy” by Beyonce ♫

Hello Sweetea,   I want to dedicate this song to my daddy! This song is so fitting for my relationship with my daddy!!


Hello Divas & Divos, Today I want to take the time out to give a special shout out and say and May God Bless me and you with so many more for you to celebrate!! I love my daddy so much and I thank God each and everyday for blessing him  into my life. I … Continue reading

Book Review: How Did I Get So Busy? By: Valorie Burton

Hello Sweetea, Remember when you were growing up you had all these innocent dreams, goals and plans how your future would be. Your thought process was unlimited, unrealistic and daring. You use to live for what you cared for and enjoy living for your dreams. You had a passion that no one couldn’t take away from you. … Continue reading