Hello Sweetea, Waking up in the mornings is such a Blessing routine I think people have really lost the importance of it all and the value of being alive and functional. I truly have learned how one start their morning will set the tone for the rest of their day, mood and over-all attitude. This is why … Continue reading

Unhappily Happy: Keeping the Momentum Going!

So I know exactly what you guys must be thinking…. Well it has been a couple of days since I wrote that I must have found my happy place….. You could not have been so wrong. So let us play catch up. 1-      Still at my dead-end job that sucks the life out of me.  Still find … Continue reading

Unhappily Happy: My Cheap Therapy

So, I woke up and said, I really enjoying typing out my daily thoughts, funnies, and problems and I know it’s been a while. I’ve learned this is almost like my cheap ass therapy. I get to say what I want without interruptions, judgment and unwanted advice. This is something that I just want to … Continue reading

Unhappily Happy: Putting Myself in 2nd Place Instead of 1st Place

So today was suppose to be the day I go over my resume and make some necessary changes. I was expecting help from let’s call her X. However, NOT only didn’t X not show up for our scheduled time, she came late with her BS excuses. For me excuses are like asses everyone has one. … Continue reading

The One Flaw In Women

Hello Sweetea, My friend was so kind enough to share The One Flaw In Women movie with me and I really thought this was a good video. This video sums up my mission with this website!! As women we do forget ourselves and always looking to please or aid everyone else around us. Women have to … Continue reading

Unhappily Happy: Mental Health Day

Day 1-Called in sick decided to take a mental health day, for those who may not understand. It is simply a day when no one will be home so I stay home and mentally prepare for the next day. Its starts out basic me making breakfast for my husband before he leaves for work because … Continue reading

Introducing Unhappily Happy!

So, it’s October and I checked my resolution list and well let’s just say that all things are not checked off. So, I woke up today and quickly jump into panic mode, because like the last couple of years I had to keep adding my old resolutions onto my new list each year with my … Continue reading


Hello Divas & Divos, Today I want to take the time out to give a special shout out and say and May God Bless me and you with so many more for you to celebrate!! I love my daddy so much and I thank God each and everyday for blessing him  into my life. I … Continue reading

Book Review: How Did I Get So Busy? By: Valorie Burton

Hello Sweetea, Remember when you were growing up you had all these innocent dreams, goals and plans how your future would be. Your thought process was unlimited, unrealistic and daring. You use to live for what you cared for and enjoy living for your dreams. You had a passion that no one couldn’t take away from you. … Continue reading

♫ NEW MUSIC: Marvin Sapp “The Best In Me” ♫

Hello Sweetea, Whoa, what a busy week and weekend it has been. I tell you Thank God I always keep an open mind and allow myself to think outside the box to in order to learn, think and grow because life isn’t about being ridged closed minded! When you think you have arrived that’s when you realized … Continue reading